This ongoing battle or war of words to be precise has been going on since ages, i.e. love or arranged marriage which is better. Skeptics claim that in love marriage you fall in the pit whereas in arranged one the whole family makes you fall in the pit :)
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But on a serious note I feel "marriage" has become the most controversial and difficult institution. Though there is no exact recipe of success in marriage. But usually love, trust, respect, and mutual feeling from both ends makes the relationship work. And its not necessary whether it will be love marriage or arranged marriage.
Sometimes A Lifetime is less to understand a person or feel a close proximity with him/her. But sometimes even a moment's togetherness is enough to know a person.
Relationships in general have become very complex. In the past women generally stayed at home. Venturing out for a job was limited to only certain sections of the society and women's emancipation was unheard of. But with each passing day and as they say "Rome wasn't built in one day" Centuries of domestic violence and many ill-customs created by the society have led women to revolt and now the situation or tide has kind of turned in her favor and with her new found education, independence, and maturity------today's woman has the guts to face the society and if she faces complexities in her marital life, she choses to end it rather than bearing it.
Although the power to choose has been good but it has also paved way for two many lonely hearts. They are men who don't want to cooperate with women at any cost. Now its expectted that a woman has to manage her household and workplace with the same enthusiasm and this in turn leads to a bitter squabble between partners. In arranged marriage its still better because whatever it is about the person one comes to know later but many love marriages are falling flat due to these kind of inconveniences and that too after going around for many years with each other.
Tuesday, April 13, 2010
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